Buy what you need, want what you have.

 Hello Friends,

I do hope that you have read my earlier posts about the four A’s of image management.

Today I will discuss the importance of the fourth A.

The last and perhaps the crucial A stands for Affordability.

We live in weird and wonderful times. We have unlimited access to information at our finger tips. We are inundated with information on subjects that sometimes we are not even aware of. This barrage of information can be both intimidating and overwhelming.

Individuals are posting pictures of themselves on social media minute by minute. A new outfit may get you a lot of likes, but the downside is that you almost can never repeat it, simply because too many people have seen it. Isn’t it weird and amusing?

 Social media influencers and celebrities are posting brand new designer looks by the minute. Most often we fall into the trap of comparing our own wardrobes and looks, with these unrealistic standards.

 While it is easy to fall into this trap, one must remember that these posts have to be viewed as inspiration and not as an expectation.

The reality I am guessing, is the same for all of us, is that we are always on a budget. 

Our image management has to be Affordable, in order to sustain it and implement it. (apart from being Attractive, Authentic and Appropriate.)

 To help you achieve this seemingly impossible task, I have given a few tips to create the perfect image for you, without breaking the bank.

 

1)   Take an inventory

Take a good look at your clothes and accessories. Separate and categorize them as per their style (e.g. one piece dresses, tops, skirts, bottoms etc.). This is a very crucial part of the process. You may discover forgotten items that you have not worn for over a year, and maybe few items of clothing that are your favorite ‘go to’ pieces that you keep repeating often.

Ruthlessly discard anything that you have not worn for more that two years. Sort out items that need alterations or repairs. Be honest and unemotional with this exercise. Once you have taken out the old, you can make place for the new.

2)   Create a strategy for your shopping plan.

Look for gaps in your wardrobe that need to be filled. For example, you may discover that you do not have a pair of well-fitted boot cut jeans. Or you may realize that you do not have a casual blazer. Make a note of these items and allocate a budget for this and stick to the plan. Look for ideas and inspiration on Pinterest or similar websites and create a ‘mood board’ for yourself. This will help you shop for the look that you are trying to achieve.

 

3)   Shop for classic pieces.

 While building your wardrobe, start by shopping for classics. Classics are those items of clothing or accessories that are the foundation pieces of your collection and they never go out of style. Some examples of classics are the little black dress (LBD), blue jeans, white shirt, denim jacket, black formal skirt / trouser, a string of pearls, solitaires, formal black / navy blazer ). 

In the case of indian wear, classic pieces could  include any tradional authentic indian saree. It could be a paithani, a kanjeevaram, a banarasi silk, a bandhani saree etc. For men, it is the bandhgala, or a pair of jodhpurs or a sleeveless bundi jacket. A beautiful jamewar shawl can also be termed as a classic item in your wardrobe.

While buying classic pieces, ensure that they are made of sturdy fabric and material and that they have an excellent finish.

Classics are timeless, they give more value for money and can be repeated many times.  Occasionally even from one generation to the other. They look classy and project a very evolved and refined image .

4)   Be patient. 

A well curated wardrobe takes time and it evolves over years. It takes ample time and consideration to collect quality goods. Slow and steady always wins the style race. Build your wardrobe piece-by-piece, adding accent pieces to it once your foundation pieces and classic pieces are in place. Assess your wardrobe needs based on the season, your lifestyle and age, and keep tweaking your collection. Please remember, the process in constant and ongoing. Enjoy the journey; don’t be in a hurry to reach the destination!

 

Another great way to get more mileage and value for money from your clothes, is by clustering them.

A cluster is a collection of clothes and accessories, which when combined in a harmonious manner, look pleasant on a person.

A cluster is open ended and dynamic. Which means that you can add or delete an item from a cluster as per your changing lifestyle or current trends.

Clustering of clothes can be done with your existing wardrobe too, which means that it needs minimal shopping and loads of imagination.

A typical cluster might include the following

·      A top

·      A skirt

·      Blue jeans

·      Dark jeand

·      Formal trouser

·      Formal blazer

·      Formal dress

·      Casual dress

·      Fancy High heels

·      Flat shoes/ fancy sandals

·      Sports shoes

·      A scarf

·      A black / tan hand bag

·      A small cross body bag

·      Wrist watch

·      Pair of pearl ear studs

·      Neck chain

·      Fancy neck piece

 

In the above cluster, the top could be worn with jeans as well as a skirt. The denim jacket could be worn over a casual dress or teamed with the blue jeans. We can keep adding new items to this cluster, for example, we could add a kurti / tunic to be worn with the jeans etc.

 We could have different clusters based on the occasion . Example: a work wear cluster, beach wear cluster, holiday cluster.

 Apart from creating many options of mix and match from your current wardrobe, clustering can help you to save huge amounts of money without ever having to repeat an outfit plus you will never hear yourself say “ I have nothing to wear’!!

 As you become more observant, aware and experienced, you will become more fluent in creating clusters according to the theme or the occasion. 

 

Clustering of clothes can be challenging at first , but trust me, it’s a lot of fun too!

Clustering helps you to avoid impulsive shopping decisions. Your creativity is enhanced. Life just becomes so simple, sorted and beautiful!!

So, there you are. Now you are armed with the powerful 4 A’s of image management.

Do you feel empowered to take charge of your own image?

Would you like me to share tips on how to cluster your clothes and accessories? Do let me know. Do you have any other questions? Feel free to ask me.

Till the next post, stay happy , healthy and positive !

Credits- cartoon by Cassandra Calin.

 

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musingsofmruga

From textile designer, to fashion designer, to entrepreneur, to image consultant, to internationally certified ‘Heal your life coach’, to a lover of yoga, my journey had been that of discovery and learning. Somewhere along this journey, I also became a wife, a companion, a mother, a daughter in law to being a mother in law myself!!! I’ve come a long way! I enjoy interacting with people and sharing all that I have learnt along this journey. There have been lots of failures but the lessons learnt from these experiences are priceless. I believe that clothes , grooming , body language and appearance have a tremendous impact on not only how we feel but also how others react towards us. However, the most stylish clothes and the best grooming habits are of no use unless we are healthy from within. The key lies in balancing this Image that we project to the world, with the real YOU that the world sometimes fails to see. The image that we project to the world, has to be Authentic, Appropriate, attractive and affordable. Unless we work on this image from Inside out, no matter how much we work on it from outside, it will be inadequate. I help people find their true self, to embrace themselves and accept themselves with all their flaws. Thanks to the teachings of Louise Hays, I believe in the powers of affirmations and positivity. Thanks to yoga, I am more aware of how strong our bodies can be. Yoga taught me awareness and staying in the moment. My only regret is that I wish I had discovered yoga earlier in my life. It’s never to late to start yoga practices and the best time is NOW, no matter how old you are. Through my blog, I am trying to make my readers aware of how easy and exciting this journey of self discovery can be. So, this is how I would like to describe myself. I am an artist, a poet, a fashion designer, a foodie, a mother, a wife, a daughter, a friend, a companion, a caretaker, a dreamer, a realist. I want everything, and want to live to the fullest. I have an opinion about everything and am ever ready to give my advice and opinion , but only when it is asked for and is valued. I am always ready to learn new things and also willing to share whatever knowledge I have gained in the last 5 decades of my life . This is my platform, where I share my thoughts. Feel free to visit and drop your comments.

24 thoughts on “Buy what you need, want what you have.”

  1. Hi ! Recently traveled to Bali with my friends and realised that I need to organise my travel clothing for a comfortable and enjoyable holiday .
    As you said I need to do clustering of my travel clothes .
    Thank you for your tips , they are a great help .

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    1. Yes, packing mistakes are the first steps towards organising your suitcase. Don’t worry, You are not the first . It has happened to me too. Clustering takes the stress out of your travel so that you can focus on enjoying your holiday! Happy that I could help resolve some of your concerns! Cheers !

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  2. I found this blog very helpful as I suffer from ” nothing to wear and no room for new clothes” syndrome :P, so I am going to try and implement the clustering idea from now on 🙂

    It would be really helpful if you gave some tips just on self-control when it come to staying away from Online deals, I tried turning off notifications for apps but the adds pop up and haunt you everywhere on Internet :(.

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    1. Hi Neha! Thank you for the feedback! I am glad that you found the post helpful. Temptations are all around us and we are living in a world that bombards is with too much information, whether we ask for it or not. The key to not allow yourself to succumb to these tempting online deals is simple. Self – control and self discipline. Ask yourself, would you waste all your efforts at working out at the gym , on that rich , gooey chocolate cake? You could overcome the craving by just having a small bite and stop there. Like wise , have a budget and a strategy for online shopping. Limit yourself to one or two purchases per month. Wait for 24 hrs before you ‘checkout’ and click pay… very often we regret a purchase no sooner we have bought it. Has it happened to you?
      This will not happen overnight. Just like you do not get the ideal fitness goal overnight. It requires consistency and will power. The results will be amazing!
      Hope this helps.
      Would love to hear about your journey.

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      1. Mruga, I realized the benefits of clustering when I saw you weaving magic with the my existing clothes and accessories, and Voila!! I had a new look and enhanced confidence when I stepped out. Thanks for the useful information; keep writing 👍

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  3. I found this blog and the idea of clustering really helpful as I suffer from ” Nothing to wear and no room for new clothes” syndrome.

    It would be really helpful if you could give some tips on self-control when it comes to online purchasing. I tried turning off notifications but the ads still pop up on all other websites 😦

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  4. Hi … I can very much identify myself with the girl in the cartoon !
    Mruga the tips are so wonderful I am definitely going to try clustering !
    And I think half my clothes in the wardrobe need to be discarded 😳

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  5. Hello, Mruga! What a thought provoking post! No matter how many clothes I seem to have, I always have to refrain myself for buying more in such a limited space! You’ve offered great advice to consider when it comes to affordability. You are absolutely right with the effect of social media influences with new trends of clothing. Have a wonderful day! 🙂

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    1. Hi Stephanie, thank you so much for the feedback. This problem seems to happen to each one of us at some point. The post is intended to spark a thought process and to create mindful decision making. This will take time to implement , We are human after all .
      Thanks again 😊

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  6. Hi Mruga,

    What a valuable article you’ve penned down. It’s a universal problem faced by most women…. Thank you for your fabulous tips & great insights… Like you said along with clustering de cluttering also plays a vital role to simplify wardrobe woes🤗

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  7. Quite good one! Hvnt u seen my ‘status’(?!!)on my cell phone? Waste not want not! Cheers

    Sent from my iPhone

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  8. ow! this is a great post! What fantastic and practical tips! You have always been a big proponent of clustering, and I have already started that. But I loved the part about patient. It’s such a relief to know that an ideal wardrobe cannot be built up overnight, and needs patience as we build it step by step. Thanks to your tips, I am going to follow this journey and have fun in the process too! Looking forward to your next post.

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  9. Wow! this is a great post! What fantastic and practical tips! You have always been a big proponent of clustering, and I have already started that. But I loved the part about patient. It’s such a relief to know that an ideal wardrobe cannot be built up overnight, and needs patience as we build it step by step. Thanks to your tips, I am going to follow this journey and have fun in the process too! Looking forward to your next post.

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  10. This is very nice Mruga 😊Remembering those many tips you have shared during our HYL together time. Thank you for sharing. Very useful and your blog is very interesting. Will follow to know more.
    All the very best!

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  11. Very well explained Mruga.
    Having spent most of my prime wearing uniforms (and I’m not complaining, I used to love the hassle free simplicity they offered) I’m at a huge disadvantage when it comes to appropriate dressing. I’m also a very need based shopper and value my comfort over brands, so don’t really possess much of a wardrobe 😊
    Your write-up has inspired me to start building one now, one piece at a time 😊 thank you for the valuable insights 👍

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